Purpose

Your job as a BBW chatter is to build fantasy, emotional connection, and desire while naturally guiding fans into supporting the creator through content, loyalty, and purchases.

You are not “customer support.”
You are a persona, storyteller, flirt, and sales psychologist.

Fans stay for:

·         Confidence

·         Warmth

·         Attention

·         Desire

·         Belonging

Your mission is to deliver all five.

CORE MINDSET

1. You Are the Fantasy

Fans are not paying for pictures — they are paying for how you make them feel.

Always ask:

·         Do they feel chosen?

·         Do they feel desired?

·         Do they feel special?

Every message should increase attraction, comfort, and curiosity.

2. BBW Energy Rules

BBW / Fat chat style is about:

✅ Confidence
✅ Soft dominance
✅ Warm teasing
✅ Reassurance
✅ Pride in curves
✅ Emotional presence

Avoid:
 Self-deprecation
 Apologizing for body
 Acting needy
 Being robotic

Instead of:
“I’m just a big girl.”

Use:
“I love my curves — they’re made to be admired.”

COMMUNICATION STYLE

3. Tone Control

You should sound:

·         Natural

·         Playful

·         Confident

·         A little mysterious

·         Emotionally warm

Avoid sounding like:

·         Customer service

·         A bot

·         A spammer

·         A script

Bad:
“Thanks for subscribing, how may I assist you?”

Good:
“Hey you… I saw your name pop up and had to say hi”

4. Message Flow

Every conversation should move through:

1️Connect
2️Compliment
3️Tease
4️Personalize
5️Escalate
6️Offer

Never jump straight to selling.

Example Flow:

Connect →
“Hey, what made you click on me tonight?”

Compliment →
“I like your vibe already.”

Tease →
“Careful… I get addictive.”

Personalize →
“So tell me, what do you enjoy about thick girls?”

Escalate →
“I love knowing what makes someone melt.”

Offer →
“I actually saved something special for guys like you…”

FAN PSYCHOLOGY

5. Buyer Types

You’ll meet:

 The Romantic
Wants connection, reassurance, affection.

 The Flirt
Wants teasing, banter, confidence.

 The Whale
Wants exclusivity, attention, fantasy leadership.

 The Curious
Needs warming up, storytelling, comfort.

Your job is to identify and adapt.

6. Emotional Hooks

Use:

·         Validation

·         Curiosity

·         Exclusivity

·         Attention

Instead of:
“Want to buy this?”

Use:
“I only show this side of me to people who really get me…”

SALES WITHOUT BREAKING FANTASY

7. Soft Upselling

Never sound transactional.

Bad:
“Here is my PPV.”

Good:
“I made something today that made me feel dangerous… want a peek?”

Bad:
“It costs $15.”

Good:
“Trust me… it’s worth the temptation.”

You are inviting, not selling.

8. The Tease → Reveal → Reward Loop

Tease:
“I’ve been feeling extra confident today…”

Reveal:
“So I filmed something a little different…”

Reward:
“And I saved it for the ones who spoil me right.”

That loop keeps fans buying repeatedly.

PERSONA CONTROL

9. Stay In Character

You are the creator’s voice.

Always maintain:

·         Tone

·         Vocabulary

·         Energy

·         Attitude

Never say:
🚫 “The model”
🚫 “My client”
🚫 “The agency”
🚫 “I’m a chatter”

You are always:
✅ “I”
✅ “Me”
✅ “Baby”
✅ “Love”

If asked directly:
“Are you real?”

Use:
“Real enough to make you smile right now 😌”

10. Curves Confidence Language

Use phrases like:

·         “These curves were made to be admired.”

·         “I love when someone appreciates thickness.”

·         “Soft, strong, confident — that’s my vibe.”

·         “Big girls know what they’re doing.”

BBW chat is powerful, not apologetic.

BOUNDARIES & SAFETY

11. Keep It Non-Explicit

We flirt, tease, and suggest — never describe graphic acts.

Instead of graphic detail, use:

·         Imagination

·         Mood

·         Emotion

·         Mystery

Example:
“I love making someone feel wanted.”
“I know how to keep attention locked in.”

Not explicit anatomy or actions.

12. Control the Frame

If fans get aggressive or rude:

Redirect:
“I like confidence, not pressure.”

If they push too fast:
“Slow down… half the fun is building it.”

You lead the interaction.

DAILY PERFORMANCE RULES

13. Speed + Quality

·         Reply fast

·         Stay playful

·         Don’t write essays

·         Keep momentum

Think: Ping-pong, not monologue.

14. Personalization Wins

Use:

·         Their name

·         Their interests

·         Their words

Mirror their style.

If they say “thick,” you say “thick.”
If they say “soft,” you say “soft.”

TRAINING EXAMPLES

Warm Opener

“Hey… I saw you join and got curious about you already 😌”

Tease

“You look like trouble in the best way.”

Soft Offer

“I actually made something special today… want me to show you?”

Whale Energy

“I like guys who enjoy spoiling confidence.”

SUCCESS METRICS

You’re winning when:

✅ Fans reply fast
✅ Fans stay talking
✅ Fans buy repeatedly
✅ Fans feel emotionally connected
✅ Fans treat you like a person, not content

Your job is not just money — it’s relationship momentum.

FINAL RULE

BBW chatter success comes from:

Confidence + Warmth + Playfulness + Control + Imagination.

If a fan feels:

·         Desired

·         Relaxed

·         Curious

·         Important

…you’ve already won.

Our Motto
“We don’t sell content — we sell connection.”